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6 Ways to Get Your Kids Outside (When They Don't Want To Go)

6 Ways to Get Your Kids Outside (When They Don't Want To Go)

Yesterday I asked my daughter if she wanted to go outside and paint snow butterflies. She looked up from her Play-Doh induced trance and politely said, "No thank you." Sigh. OK, yes I am working on raising a self-inspired child who loves the feel of the wind through her hair. And yes, I do understand that intrinsic motivation is authentic and awesome. However I'll admit I'm not above occasionally using some guerrilla tactics to at least get my daughter out the door!

1.Outside Dance

Sometimes we are all bundled up and almost out when my daughter mysteriously stops in her tracks and refuses to budge. It's like she's standing at the edge of a plane window afraid to jump. That's when the outside dance comes in handy. Yes, it's exactly what it sounds like, we sing, "outside dance outside dance," while hopping and twirling around.

A lot of times it gets pumps her up enough to get her over the threshold! If they don't really want to dance, you can have the kids give a loud whoop, sing a song or do a secret handshake. Really you're just looking for something to make the moment feel a little more special.

2. The Way of the Ninja

This tactic works really well for me. Sometimes I don't even bring it up or ask my daughter if she wants to go outside. Instead, I get myself almost entirely dressed and slowly but surely start to suit her up. The key here for us is giving her a snack or involved in an activity while I'm getting her ready little by little. Just last week I took this idea on the road. I brought all her snow clothes and got her dressed in the car in the nature center parking lot. Before she knew it, she was in a sled and on the river trail looking for ducks. Outside dance, outside dance!

3. Counting Trees

The idea is that every time my daughter goes outside, she gets to color in a tree on the printable that is on our fridge when she gets back in. We use this worksheet filled with 100 trees. She loves doing this and it gives us both a simple visual goal of our time spent in nature. When they're filled up, we tack it to the wall and print out another one!

If you have older kids and want to keep closer track, I recommend checking out 1000 Hours Outside. This blog is filled with great ideas for tracking your time and getting the family back outside!

4. Ice Pops

Just like most kids, Cora loves eating icicles. Finding one instantly gets her comfortable and excited about being outside. Problem is, they aren't always readily available and at 6 months pregnant, I don't have the ups I used to. Instead I started making my own popsicles using push up forms.
 BPA-free Silicone Ice Pop Maker Molds / Popsicle Molds

Before we get ready to go out, I run the form under hot water and get the entire popsicle out. Then I go out ahead of Cora real quick and hide one in the snow somewhere. Once I tell her we're going on a popsicle hunt, it's on! This can work in almost any climate (even Florida if you hurry:).

You get the BPA-free forms we use HERE.

5. The Man, The Myth

No matter if your family is into Santa or not, you have to admit that man has power! One of the reasons why the idea of him works so well is because children have such wonderful imaginations. So choose your myth. We love the forest fairies. On the day before we are planning to go on a big outdoor adventure, I'll put something special near the fairy tree for them. When we go outside we'll always go over, see if they took our gift and left any fairy dust behind.

Not into fairies? There are trolls, dinosnowaurs (make big footprints in the snow), or any other imaginary animal you can think of. What makes this stronger and work even better is building an entire story and tradition around your magical creature.

6. Play Dates

There is something about being outside in a group that makes children click into nature easier. If there are three or four other kids getting ready to go, Cora is way into it. Once outside, they are just totally immersed in playing and being together.

This really gives us parents a chance to take a step back and let our kids self-direct their own play. At the end of the day, I know it's not about the ice pops and missions - those are just ways to light the spark. Really, it's about that free play that only comes with time spent in the wild.

These are just some of the things that have worked for me. What little tricks do you have up your sleeve?


My kids don't want to go outside

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  • Nicolette – you are a riot! Love these suggestions. We are a big outdoorsy family, sometimes a little too outdoorsy for my 2 year olds liking. I think some of these tricks will come in handy with him! Especially the icicle one … brilliant!

    Sarah @ How Wee Learn

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